449 Dr. Dolores Fazzino

Jeffrey Feldberg: [00:00:00] Dr. Dolores Fazzino is a pioneering force at the intersection of modern medicine and spiritual healing. As a medical intuitive, energy healer and doctorally prepared nurse practitioner, Dolores brings over four decades of surgical and clinical experience into a new era of wellness. One were science and spirituality meet. 

She's assisted in over 10,000 surgical procedures and has worked alongside the world's top surgeons. Yet her most profound insights come from what cannot be seen on an x-ray or lab report. 

Dolores is the founder of Spiritual Wellness for Life, and author of multiple books, including The Spiritual Wellness Handbook and The Healing Field, where she reveals how unresolved emotions, unexpressed grief, and energetic imbalances can silently sabotage success, health, and joy.

What makes Dolores extraordinary isn't just her clinical knowledge, it's her gift for helping high performing entrepreneurs, executives, [00:01:00] and creatives break through invisible barriers to wholeness. Whether you're burnt out. Stuck in cycles of overachievement or seeking a more aligned life. Dolores offers a radically compassionate and deeply effective roadmap back to your true self.

If you ever felt like success on the outside didn't match how you feel inside, this is a conversation for you that you won't want to miss. Dr. Dolores Fazzino is here to help you heal, transform, and finally come home to yourself.

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Deep Wealth Nation welcome to another episode of the Deep Wealth Podcast. Well, Deep Wealth Nation, let me ask you a question. Perhaps your business is over the top, but how are you? How are you feeling? Are you feeling. Oh, that brain fog, I'm lacking that energy. I need to take a nap in the middle of the day.

I can't think straight. And by the time the end of day comes, you are absolutely exhausted. Perhaps you've had a better days before you a spring in your step before you, but no longer today. If you have that and you're wondering, is it affecting your business? The answer is yes. What can you do about that?

That's what we're talking about all today. I have a very special guest in the House of Deep Wealth. We have a fellow entrepreneur, a fellow podcaster, thought leader, [00:05:00] author, and healer. So Dolores, welcome to Deep Podcast, and there is always a story behind the story. What's your story, Dolores? What brought you from where you were to where you are today?

Dr. Dolores Fazzino: Well, first of all, Jeffrey, thank you so much for having me on your show. I greatly appreciate it. And you're absolutely right. Everybody has their story and it's one of those pivotal moments in your life that you know pretty much shifts. The trajectory of where you're going. And for me I'm a product of the 1960s.

I know I look really good for my age. I am actually five years old. I'm only kidding. But what I was gonna say is I was born an empath and intuitive and a highly sensitive person. So back in the sixties, you have to realize that. People didn't know what the heck that was. And if you didn't fit in a little container box like everybody else, you were like the odd man out.

So for me, I felt things very deeply at a very young age, and I was very intuitive, so I [00:06:00] could tell when people would lie to me. And so. With that in mind too, I grew up in a household where my mother was a product of an alcoholic household, but she, never dealt with any of it. Like people during that time did, they didn't, it was like, kept behind closed doors.

But her mo in order to survive was to anything painful or, feeling something was to ignore it. It'll go away. Now when you say that to somebody who's an empath and intuitive and a highly sensitive person, I would try to ignore it. And guess what? It was getting bigger. I had to learn how to survive my childhood, and I channeled all my emotion into a creative outlet I, and really excelled in music.

In fact, I was on the trajectory to become a concert clarinettist.

Jeffrey Feldberg: wow.

Dr. Dolores Fazzino: I. With my career, but when I was about 17 years old something had happened in tandem to what I was sharing with you. [00:07:00] My dad had a chronic health condition that stemmed from a surgery that he had in the 19 mid 1960s. He had back surgery and picked up a hospital acquired infection in back in the 1960s.

It predated any type of medical technology or medications. That they could use to assist him. So my dad's life from 1966 to 75 was like this emotional rollercoaster for me because he would go into the hospital for at least two months. We didn't know if he was gonna make it out or not. My mom trying to shuffle, spin the plates and everything's fine, and I could tell that things were not.

So I really excelled and channeled that energy into music. So what would happen with my dad anytime his immune system would get compromised. This whole sequela would reappear. So it was like every year, every 18 [00:08:00] months. So from 1970 to 1975, this was happening almost every year. So by the time 1975 came, and that was like the fourth episode of this sequela the cat scanner came out. And so that's the first piece of modern technology. So they put my dad underneath the CAT scanner. And lo and behold, where he had his original back surgery 10 years prior was where his problem was stemming from. And the physician's solution at that time was he was going to need a spinal fusion. Well, you have to understand in 1975.

Spinal fusions were in its neophyte stages of development, and it came with uber high risk. Like you would either survive that, maybe you might be paralyzed, you might not be the same, you might die. And my mom she was at her wits end because she felt like western medicine really failed her.

So she was really looking for answers. [00:09:00] Non-traditional, and you have to remember, this is 1975. We don't have Google md, we don't have computers or the electronics that we had that came on board in the 1990s as the 1970s, and we had a lot of newspapers and you know, magazines. So she came across an article of all places in the National Enquirer.

Okay. That was the rag of the day. A lot of people got their information from there. you've been there, so anyway, so what happened was this, she came across an article that was being featured and it was this minister from Carol, Michigan, a Reverend Alex Holmes, who was a, I believe he was a Presbyterian minister, and he had the gift of laying on of hands and he was being featured.

The national acquirer because he was assistive in helping his brother heal from leukemia. Now you have to remember, 1975, this is Uber Quackery. Okay. And the reverend was also doing [00:10:00] this work for well over 25 years. So he had been doing this successfully since the 1950s. Okay. So my dad was very skeptical and when they were in the hospital when my mom presented this to my father, and he said, well, only if the surgeon says it's okay. So my mom marched out to the nurse's station and there's the doctor surgeon sitting there writing his notes, and she announced to the surgeon, I'm thinking about having a.

Spiritual healer come in to assist my husband with his health condition. Would that be okay? Surgeon in the surgeon's way is writing his notes, doesn't miss a beat. Looks up at her and said, sure, that's fine. So my mom went back to the room, shared that information with my dad. my dad agreed, so not 10 minutes went by Jeffrey.

My mom comes back out to the same nurses station, same surgeon sitting there. She announces to the surgeon. My husband agreed to have the spiritual healer come in and the surgeon dropped what he was doing and looked up at her. What are you talking about? I never [00:11:00] agreed to that. So this is where. There's things that always happen behind the scenes sometimes, and we don't have privy to that till much later.

My mom didn't share that, a piece of information with my father, and a month later, Reverend Holmes came to our house in Connecticut. 'cause I grew up there and my two grandparents, grandmothers were there. And my siblings. I have a brother and two sisters and my parents and Reverend Holmes. And I remember meeting this man, and he was like this really humble, quiet and his essence was just beautiful.

it just permeated from him. And I don't know how he knew that my father had one leg that was shorter than the other, but he did indeed. He was barefoot. No shoes in sight. We all knew this, but I don't know how he knew this. Yet, he said to my father, I noticed one leg shorter than the other.

Put your both feet up. And sure enough, when he put a book on the longer leg, you could see the one inch gap. So he said to my father, put your feet down. And then he started praying over my [00:12:00] father. He touched his belly, solar plexus and the top of his head crown chakra, and said some prayers, move some energy.

Apparently and three minutes went by and he said, put both your feet up, and they were both the same length. In that moment, I knew that my life changed forever, that it was not my mission in this lifetime to go into music, but to go into healthcare, to bridge the physical with the spiritual and the visible with the invisible.

Now my father this is the best part. He wailed like a baby because remember, he was a skeptic and he needed some visual, tangible evidence that something was actually happening. I. More prayers were said over my father, about a half an hour more, and he was instructed to go lie down because when there's massive energy work that is done in your space, you need to reintegrate this into your physical body.

It's like a computer getting a downloaded new program. A computer needs to reboot itself. Physical [00:13:00] body, the same way my dad slept for 24 hours a month later he went back, got a repeat cat scan. It showed no evidence of his problem. He never had to revisit that problem in his lifetime, never had to have the surgery, and he passed away about 12 years ago at the age of 80.

Jeffrey Feldberg: Wow. My goodness, Dolores, there is so much there to unpack. I'm not even sure where to begin with that, but let's take a step back for just a moment. It because from a very young age, you really saw and experienced what most people either never experience or they may say, Hey, truth is stranger than fiction.

Or maybe later on they'll get all that. But you got a dose of this, a large dose of this from a very young age. And so if I take a step back for just a moment, because sometimes we can use the same words and they mean different things. So when I say the word wellness, what does wellness really mean for you?

Dr. Dolores Fazzino: I define wellness as. Being aligned with your body, mind, and soul. Okay? [00:14:00] Too often we give our power away to something outside of ourselves, And that might be good and not so good at the same moment because First of all, we're sovereign beings. We have everything we need within ourselves, even the capability to heal ourselves.

I see this a lot because I've been in healthcare for close to 50 years, where people give their power away for their health and wellness to something outside of themselves instead of trusting the inner wisdom that they have within themselves. And let me go a little a step further with that, Jeffrey, because I feel that people are always comparing themselves with other people. Oh, I should be doing this because this person's doing this and this is the right thing. No, what you need to do is have a relationship with yourself. Create a relationship, a friendship, because guess what? The longest relationship you're ever gonna have in your life is the one you have with yourself.

Yet so many people [00:15:00] don't even know who the hell they are.

they give aspects of themselves away to something external instead of coming in the internal and. Having a dialogue, coming to still point where you're in the present moment where you're gonna be able to hear and extrapolate that information.

And what I also share with people too, this is going to be the right thing for you to do. Not your spouse, not your kids, not the society for you. And it may be so counter to what you're being told externally that sometimes it's like you feel like You're on an island by yourself, but this is the right thing for you to do because, and I think we've had numerous opportunities over the decades to witness what happens when you follow something externally and later you live to regret it because you ignored it, and you did it anyway. 

Jeffrey Feldberg: Easier said than done. From the outside looking in, oh. Yeah, no problem. I'm gonna advocate for myself, but I tell you, I don't know what it is. [00:16:00] That white coat steps into the room my goodness, all of our belief in ourself, I dare. I use the term logic and everything, it just goes out the window and we become like little school great children.

Okay, I want you to do this. And so many people just go in that direction. From fear, from social programming is

Dr. Dolores Fazzino: And that's what it is. And the thing is, Jeffrey, a lot of it's fear-based and we've been programmed to think that they have all the answers. Well, you know what? I've been in healthcare for 50 years. I still practice in the clinical setting and along with coaching programs that I do, and my area of expertise is surgery.

As a matter of fact, I'm an assistant surgeon, so I get to see people's creations at their most profound endpoint. Okay, because everything starts, you're a complete being. The physical is the end result of everything that is not seen. I'm going to give the analogy, the physical body's the iceberg.

The tip of it that you can see below the surface is everything [00:17:00] that you can see. That's like your beliefs, your emotions, whether or not you experience them, ignore them, you know, stuff them. Partially experience them. Your connectedness to yourself, your connectedness to your higher self and your beingness.

your ancestral stuff comes in there and dimensional stuff. This is all below the surface that's unconscious that we can't tangibly see. We might have an essence or feel of it, but it's actually creating what's happening in the physical.

Jeffrey Feldberg: Yeah. Yeah. My goodness. There is so much there. And I'm thinking now of an entrepreneur in Deep Wealth Nation who is very, let's just call it logical. Hey, what I see. Is what I get and oh my goodness, Dolores. Jeffrey, you're talking about things that don't make any sense to me. I can't see it. It probably doesn't exist.

I'm just going to my doctor. I'm getting my usual annual checkup, but de both nation. Let me ask you this. When you look at the body, take a step back because you're smart as an entrepreneur, you business. Isn't just [00:18:00] a five minute visit to your accountant. You have so many other parts to your business. Well, why would the human body be any different?

And in fact, Dolores, you have many books. So Deepp Nation, if you go to the show notes, and please do go to the show notes in there, there will be a link to all of Dolores's books in one of the books that you wrote. Dolores, I'm gonna read you this quote that for me, I had to stop. Reread it. It took me down a rabbit hole and then I continued, and I'm just looking at my notes here.

It was from the Wellness Universe Guide to Complete Self-Care, 25 Tools for Stress Relief. And what I love about that. Any doctor will tell you regardless of what the disease, it's likely starting from stress. And so if you think about stress, it's the root cause for 99.9% of all the illnesses that are out there.

And so you start things off. I wanna say this quote was in the introduction or chapter one. The path to healing is not linear, it's not defined by time or circumstance. Healing comes through our ability to let go, receive and allow, and that's by [00:19:00] Anna Perria. And what I love about that, you're talking about health, but that could just as easily be the entrepreneurial journey.

So Deep Wealth Nation, you're already doing this on the business side. It's not that big of a stretch to now do this on the health side and offline. Dolores, you and I were talking about how our health. Is our first wealth and pulp nation. Go back to those rhetorical questions that I asked at the beginning of this episode.

How are you feeling? Do you wanna have that jump in your step? Do you wanna have focus all day long? Do you wanna have that clarity, that mental clarity to do the right things to make those life-changing decisions? I. With the wind behind your back, not going upstream or going downstream.

When you're working with your clientele, when you're speaking with people in general, are there one or two or three ailments that, yeah, these 20% of the issues are causing 80% of the challenges that people are facing in life, and what will those be?

Dr. Dolores Fazzino: I think you hit the nail on the head. Stress is a big one

Jeffrey Feldberg: Yeah.

Dr. Dolores Fazzino: And I find stress is one of the. [00:20:00] The things not getting enough rest. And pretty much when I say not getting enough rest, your body's telling you it's tired, but you put it on default and you just keep pushing ahead.

 you're not listening to your body. Okay? Your body is this wealth of wisdom that has the information that you need to heal yourself, but you bypass that and the mind oversteps that, it's like the body mind. And the gut are three separate entities and they're not playing nicely together in the sandbox.

Okay. Because we think, when we're in our head, we're always. Thinking, trying to figure it out, trying to make something happen. I love this analogy, pushing a bloody boulder up a hill. I'm exhausted just thinking about that. I don't know about if you are, but this is what doing is all about.

It's a mind thing. When you're in doing mode, you are in. Living in the past or living in the future, you are not in the present moment. [00:21:00] In fact, you don't even feel your emotions. When you're in doing mode, you intellectualize your emotions. Big difference. 

Jeffrey Feldberg: And so with that said, so you've described for us behind the scenes what typically is going on. Probably for the vast majority of us, and by the way, deep Wealth Nation, this might be showing up as you need to make a big decision. And here at Deep Wealth, as you know, you're looking to grow my profits today so I can have a future liquidity event tomorrow.

And there's a life-changing decision. You get it right. You have your legacy, you have your financial freedom, you get it wrong. My goodness, there's so much on the line. Let's not even go down that path. And Deep Nation, are you looking at a big decision? And it's as though, lemme go back to the beginning and think about that.

And three hours have passed by and nothing's really happened because you don't have that clarity, you don't have that strength of focus. It's probably because health wise it is just not happening. So Dolores, again, another general question, but for us entrepreneurs, we're feeling that stress, we're feeling that fatigue that comes along the way.[00:22:00]

There's not one simple fix, and I know there's no magic pill that I can take. What would be a low hanging fruit though that I could begin to do that? If I was working with you one-on-one or going through one of your many programs or listening to your podcast or hopping onto one of your live calls, what would be one strategy that I could begin to do that would start to get me some reasonable results?

Dr. Dolores Fazzino: Jeffrey, my low hanging fruit, and if I'm gonna call it that, is we need to get you into the being mode. And the best way to do that is doing some sort of mindful activity. I. And let me define what mindful activity is. it could be as formal as sitting in quiet meditation or could be going out in nature.

What a mindful activity is that anything that we do that allows us to lose all sense of time and place, okay? We have all had those moments where you get so caught up in a project. Or a craft, or you're doing reading a book or doing a [00:23:00] physical activity, that hours go by and it feels like five to 10 minutes.

So what I'm going to say is that is the gateway to get you into that present moment being mode, and it's gonna look different for everybody because you know, everybody is uniquely different. Their mindful activity may not even look like yours. For me, mindful activity is mindful sometimes just sitting out in nature and just observing what's going on in the world.

For some people it's going to be. Maybe journaling for another person, it may be doing a physical activity, whatever that is, find what your mindful activity is and just start focusing on that because I'm gonna share another piece here that I think is really important. I was on that doing mobile thing where, you're constantly pushing a boulder up, I mean, 30 years ago.

And I had, you know what? I will tell you, you'll have short-lived [00:24:00] success, but it won't be lasting. Because what'll happen is your health and wellness may suffer because of that. Yeah. It's great to have all this financial freedom and stuff, but if you're not well enough to enjoy it, what's the point? Okay.

So what I'm saying is that for me, 30 years ago, I had that going on and I realize it's not sustainable. I need to pivot and do something different. So for me, I decided that I'm going to just be and and do something mindful. And when you are doing a mindful activity, guess what? You're in the present moment.

You drop from your head into your heart space where you're actually anchored into your body. Okay? When you're in your body, you're in the present moment. When you're in your body, you experience your emotions. 'cause you have to be in your body to experience them. I think what happens for a lot of people, they get taps of that.

They feel something [00:25:00] and they go whoop back into their head trying to figure it out and keep it at bay and whatever. But what I'm gonna tell you, being in your body and feeling your emotions is essential to being a human being because this is your ground zero point in your barometer that's giving you the essence of what.

Is safe, what is not safe? What is the right thing for you to do? This is where you're able to hear your higher self, your intuition, your G body, whatever you wanna call it. It's where the information comes through you and you get that little hankering like, I think I need to go do this. You listen to that, and guess what?

I'm gonna share a story because I think this'll drive it home. For me, I was really starting to work on going into the being aspect of who I am. And I know one time, this is a funny story, I have cats and I had to bring my cat max to the vet, and I'm not a morning person, so I had to get up really early and trying to herd a cat was just.

[00:26:00] Like hilarious. So I finally got Max in his carrier and I had to bring him to the vet at seven o'clock in the morning and dropped him off. On my way back, I see this sign and my higher self is saying, it's like I could see this stuff happening around the sign. It's like. garage sale. You need to go to the garage sale.

And I'm like, oh, hell no. I don't need to go anywhere, but go back to bed. I'm having this argument with my higher self, the higher self one. The car drove to where the garage sale was down the street. I couldn't park right in front of the garage sale. I had to go down about four houses. And I'm still having this conversation with myself.

I really don't wanna be going and looking at other people's junk. I have so much junk myself, I should be having the garage sale. And it was just like, that other conversation was going on, go in, walk through. Nothing. And it wasn't until walking back from the garage sale, remember I had to park four houses down house.

Number two, a car pulls out and it was actually an, an old client of mine I hadn't seen in years. She's oh my God, Dolores, [00:27:00] I wanted to reach out to you because there's a professor at the California Institute of Human Sciences that wanted to contact you. And I said, great, make the introduction. So through that, I met the professor and I was able to teach a class there, and I also asked the professor, I said, so what do you do during the summer? And she said, oh, I run the programs at Omega Institute in New York. I was like, oh, really? I said. Did little did she know that was on my bucket list to go and speak there.

And guess what? I got to speak there. So this is what I'm saying is that you have this list of things that you wanna accomplish. Sometimes they happen in ways you have no idea. You just have to step out of that. Constant motion of thinking. You have to be doing something to be a productive member of society and just sit back and allow these things to come to you.

So it's not about a this or that. It's combining both doing and being. I invite people to go [00:28:00] start with being first and get their divine download of what they need to be divinely doing, and then come back instead of starting at one end of. The infinity sign and, polarizing that so badly that the Infinity sign doesn't work anymore.

Jeffrey Feldberg: Okay. My goodness, there is so much going on there. Let me start with this because there's a lot that you put in there. And by the way, Dolores, everything that you're sharing, I'm right there with you and yes, deep Nation. I know it may sound way out there. I've gotta tell you, science is backing everything up that Dolores is saying.

What as ancients, they've known for millennia. Science, which we now call the quantum field and other terms that you may hear, is finally quote unquote discovering that, yeah, this is actually here, this is doing that. But let's take it to the very basics because to begin to stop doing, to start being one thing, I often hear from people, Jeffrey, I know meditation is probably good for me.

Can't do it [00:29:00] After a minute, maybe two minutes, if that, the monkey mind comes in and my mind's all over the place and it's just so frustrating for me. I just can't do it. I don't know what to do. So to start with something very basic, to slow down, to stop all that madness of jumping around here, there, everywhere, and to begin to really get into our being through perhaps meditation or being in the moment as you talked about, how can we do that?

Because for so many people, they just don't get there. They get the failing grade and they just stop.

Dr. Dolores Fazzino: I wanna just say this is that I have a lot of compassion for people, especially when they're on their journey, because, it could get uber frustrating because when you're. Ready to make a change. It's like sometimes it's a very daunting thing and it's this huge elephant, and I love the expression, how do you eat an elephant?

One bite at a time. So you take baby steps and you have kindness for yourself, and you be gentle with yourself and compassionate with yourself. No judging or criticizing self because that stuff [00:30:00] that we say to ourself in the quiet of their mind, it's really toxic to us. It keeps us stuck. I feel that self-talk is huge.

It's a huge issue in our society because, you know, and I know I'm gonna go off on a little tangent about this, but it's like when, whatever we say our essence, I. Okay. Each one of us contributes to the greater whole. Okay? So just imagine this beautiful pond, okay? That's collective consciousness. And we're just one pebble.

So the essence of who we are, like our self-talk and our judging and criticism, we're judging and criticizing, guess what? Plunk into collective consciousness. It ripples out. It's no surprise that we're in the state. That we are in the world with all the judging and criticism. It all starts with guess what ourselves.

Jeffrey Feldberg: My goodness. There is so much there. So, and I agree with you. Lose the judgment. Don't put labels on things. Perhaps [00:31:00] be an observer, be like a cloud in the. Guy, just things are passing through you. You're just observing. How am I doing with that?

Dr. Dolores Fazzino: You're doing really well with that it's perfect because when people start waking up and realizing that Sometimes you just wake up and you realize what you're hearing out here is no longer making any sense, or maybe you have lost a job, or you're going through relationship challenges or things are falling away.

What I always try to remind people of is that, everything is energy. Okay.

Jeffrey Feldberg: Mm-hmm.

Dr. Dolores Fazzino: You know, Jeffrey, you and I are looking at each other right now and we're demonstrations of energy. We're just denser forms and everything that's in our environment is a denser form of energy. Yet all the things that we can't see, our thoughts, our beliefs, our ancestral stuff are dimensional, stuff that's going on, this is all energy as well.

So what happens is that, we are energetic beings and when we start, wanting to [00:32:00] change ourselves. We raise our frequency sometimes and maybe the things that we had created at one time were aligned with our energy field, but they're still stuck here and we've elevated above that. So it's like we're no longer in an energetic alignment.

So when things start happening and things start falling away for people, it's not that the universe is doing stuff to you. No. The universe is providing you an opportunity for you to get upgraded.

Jeffrey Feldberg: And for getting upgraded. I'm jumping around here into one of your other books. It really, at least for me, for upgrading and jumping out at me. I'll put this out there. You both nation. I'm now talking about. Dolores's book, your amazing, itty bitty healing in ways you never thought Possible book. And you talk about 15 key steps.

And one of the things, actually many things that are in there, but one of the things that you talk about in there, it's step three. Giving your power away. And then step four, healthy [00:33:00] boundaries, and those two really go hand in hand. I don't even think we realize most of the time that we are actually giving our power away and we're really not having those healthy boundaries.

Can you talk to us about that, Dolores? What's going on there that you would want us to know?

Dr. Dolores Fazzino: You know how often we give, and I'm gonna just reiterate this, we give our power away to some. Else, and you know, sometimes we do it on an unconscious level because it's been programmed into us from society, but also within our family lineage too. It's the way it was always done in our family, so we just continue to do it.

Who made that rule up? That's what I always say. It's who made that rule up? That's crazy. But anyway, what I'm saying is this, when we have set boundaries, okay, we, I. Are allowing things to happen to us. Okay? And I mean, when we don't set boundaries, we're allowing things to have happened to us.

And people sometimes go into victim mode saying, well, you know, they did this to me. No, somehow you are [00:34:00] allowing this to happen because on a deeper level, energetically there's a match to that frequency. That's still attracting to you. So the world is really a mirror of what is going on truly inside of you.

And I know that's a big pill to swallow for some people because they say, oh no, this is happening to me. No, you're creating this. We are amazing manifesters. When you awaken and have the awareness that you are doing this, this is where your power comes in. Okay. Case in point, I'm going to use myself as an example 'cause I had something happen, in the last several years that was in regards to contracting.

Okay. So, you know, I've worked on myself for a very long time and I've continued to work on myself because I'm a work in progress. It's not a one and done and nobody gets a bypass. You need to do your work. To clear out what is going on within you so you have more [00:35:00] wellness and balance in your life. So I had this one contract and they were like very disrespectful, wouldn't pay on time.

Gave excuses, didn't value me. And it was just like I was in partnership with three other people with this. And I finally said, you know what? I don't tolerate this stuff in my personal life. Why would I allow it in my professional life? that, to me, that was it. I was out of alignment with myself by allowing myself to be in that point.

Once I decided to not do that, it almost gave permission to the rest of my group to do the same thing. So it's interesting, when you're, especially in a group setting,

Jeffrey Feldberg: Huh.

Dr. Dolores Fazzino: When one person takes the lead, it gives permission to the rest of the group to do the same thing as well.

That's something to keep in mind as well, because a lot of times people are afraid to speak up and say something, but you know, you sometimes you just have to be in alignment with who you are and you know it's the right thing for you [00:36:00] and it's the ripple effect. it does multipurpose things.

It gives people permission to stand in their power as well and take their power back.

Jeffrey Feldberg: I know it's gonna be another general question, Jeffrey. Everyone is different. It's going to vary. What would be though some typical telltale signs that it just isn't right, or I'm being taken advantage of, or I'm giving my power away, or, hey, I really shouldn't be where I am right now.

Dr. Dolores Fazzino: So always trust your gut on that.

Your gut will never lie. Okay. you might have this awful feeling in your body. Trust the information that your body's giving you, because your body is a barometer and it measures stuff when something doesn't feel right. I. Trust what the information you're getting and don't continue to carry on because that's on you.

And I wanna circle back to the whole thing of trusting your gut. We've been programmed in our society not to trust our instincts.

And the beauty is, in this day and age, people we're having a renaissance with coming [00:37:00] back to that as people are stepping into their power, they're.

Learning how to trust those instincts within themselves. And remember, it's gonna be the right decision for you. Not your neighbor, not your boss, not your kids, not your spouse, but for you.

when you're living in your true power, it doesn't matter. This is where your certainty comes in an uncertain world.

And trust me, nothing has been certain in our world since probably 2008.

Jeffrey Feldberg: Interesting. So DePaul Nation, the takeaway there, it's that little gnawing feeling, that little voice in your head, and I'm using the word little intentionally here that you're probably disregarding. Just social programming. Yeah. Don't listen to it. It's nothing. It's, everything's gonna be okay. Just keep on going where you're going.

Listen to that voice or follow that feeling. Now, one of the other things I wanted to ask you, Dolores, many people believe that trauma has to be a big impact. A big situation [00:38:00] happened yesterday or 10 years ago. But I'm wondering, it's not always such a big thing, but it can be impactful. It can be traumatic to us.

Are there clues that we're giving ourselves? Are there subtle emotional wounds that are somehow showing up in our business performance, or even what we're saying, the words we're choosing, or how we're making decisions? Again, we're putting a spotlight now on some things that are right in front of us, but we're not seeing.

Dr. Dolores Fazzino: You know, That's a great question. Thank you. Feel. What people need to realize is that everywhere you go, here you are. Okay? It's not about keeping things in little boxes separate, like your career, your health, your wellness, and separate boxes, and you put 'em on the shelf and you strategically take one down when you wanna deal with it.

Guess what? Things are not linear. They're not in boxes. They're like a matrix, interconnected in ways you have no idea, and they are always influencing. Everything. Okay. So when the [00:39:00] way, I love this saying, I had a mentor, 30 years ago, said this to me, Dolores, how are you being, that's a tough question.

And I finally over decades have realized what being really is. It's the essence of who you are from the inside going out. ' cause we've all had those. Experiences where you could be in the presence of somebody and they don't say anything, but you could feel what they're all about,

Right? So this is your essence of who you are that's radiating out from the inside of you out, okay?

This is how you are being in the world, how you are showing up. Okay. So, Jeffrey, I'm gonna just give you my impression of your essence. Okay? I feel your compassion. I feel your empathy, and I feel your connectedness. I feel very heard in your presence.

Jeffrey Feldberg: Well, thank you. Thank you. I appreciate that. And that goes back to you being [00:40:00] your empath and being able to really pick up on things. And I know I'm jumping all over the place here, but there is a method to the madness here, and it's a great segue with what you're sharing because you've been very privileged.

from my research, it's been over 10,000 surgeries that you've been involved with and this question I may lose whatever few listeners we have left with these out of the field questions I've been asking. I'm just very curious because there's so much going on here. When you look back at that, and I'm sure it's much higher now than from those 10,000, when you look back at that though, what spiritual or energetic shifts have you seen in people on the operating table or maybe even afterwards as a result of having gone through that and you playing a role with them and helping them?

Dr. Dolores Fazzino: It's very interesting. I feel that they're more grounded within themselves. Okay. I feel that sometimes you know everything. Like I said, everything is energy. When you're in your head. It's really [00:41:00] interesting because I could see energy, like a big ball of energy here and nothing in the body.

So it's just like when we are able to integrate. That energy from your head and move it into your physical body. It balances things out, things the head, the mind, the body and the gut are gonna all start talking to each other and they're gonna play nicely in the sandbox. I feel that what happens for some people, it's a wake up call because sometimes things happen, but I also know that.

When you don't look at the underlying issues that created, for an example, say somebody comes in to have surgery for cancer, okay? And okay, great, they have the surgery, they get the part taken out, they do the chemo and the radiation. But why is it they come back 18 months, two years later with another cancer?

Jeffrey Feldberg: Exactly.

Dr. Dolores Fazzino: So it's like there's more going on than just that aspect. [00:42:00] That's just the physical stuff. There's the emotional components too of, and those things are energy. And if they're not healed and addressed, guess what? We just recreated again. So in Western medicine, and I could say this 'cause I'm trained, but I play in both worlds, is that we're really good at.

Prescribing pills, doing procedures, and putting bandaids on situations and ripping them off, and we start all over again instead of digging deeper and going into the core issues of what has really created that. And just case in point when you're able to. at what the individual has gone through in their life to create a disease because the end product, okay, another example may be diabetes, okay, is the end point, but yet that's the tip of the iceberg.

What's going on underneath each iceberg for each individual is a different pathway of how they created that for themselves. So Western medicine [00:43:00] does a huge disservice for people, I feel, because they think that they could. treat everybody the same way for the same disease, and that's why you see the whole gamut of some people doing really well and some people not.

Jeffrey Feldberg: Interesting. And you know, as you're talking about that, and I really wanted to. Put the foundation, or at least to start to put the foundation. I mean, There's so much here to cover. So with what you've shared now, I want you to imagine a scenario where we have an entrepreneur and they are just hitting it outta the park.

Laris, they are doing some incredible things on the business side. Maybe they've even had an exit. An exit to remember that now sets them up financially for a lifetime. Many lifetimes is multi-generational, but despite that, when they go within, when the noise quiets down. They feel empty or maybe even sad on the inside.

Dr. Dolores Fazzino: Yeah.

Jeffrey Feldberg: What do you do in that kind of situation? Where should someone begin if they find themselves there?

Dr. Dolores Fazzino: Where they should begin is to learn how to feel what they're [00:44:00] experiencing, because there's lots of gold nuggets there. Okay. This is not an unusual thing, Jeffrey. There's a lot of people who have been very successful, yet it's a hollow success, and I'm gonna say hollow because you're not aligned with that success.

Okay? So it's about learning how to feel. 'cause maybe a lot of these people don't know how to feel. Or they've never felt, or if they've had emotions or maybe they've had some trauma in their past, they've kind of stuffed it away and pretended that it wasn't there. They ignore it. Okay. So it's about taking baby steps into that and feeling the things that come up because I think feelings have been given a bad rap in our society because we are told you can't feel because it's a sign of weakness.

I'm gonna declare. Baloney on that because [00:45:00] that is one of the most essential things that we as human beings could experience to enrich our lives and our experience here. Emotions have been given a bad rap. People feel like if I open the lid of Pandora's Box, it's never gonna shut.

Okay. That's a scary thing. There's a lot of fear and, people are frightened by what's there. my news is that our natural tendency is that we wanna push painful things away. But what happens is that when we have painful experiences, it's like part of our soul fractures off and stays time locked in that time and place where that essence happened, I.

So it continues to run the show. So what happens when you're quiet like that and maybe you get this surge of emotion, like you feel very sad. I invite you to just be with that sadness as an observer.

Where are you feeling it in your body? Because emotions have a somatic response [00:46:00] that's in our body. You might feel like something, tightness in your gut or in your chest bit or your head, wherever that is, is just, I invite people just to feel where that is and just flood it with so much love.

Pink light acceptance. Because what happens is that when you start flooding that area with so much love, appreciation, and acceptance, it dissipates and it's part of your soul that fractured off that wants to come back to you, so you'll become more complete and whole.

Jeffrey Feldberg: I love that. And as you're talking about that and it's really advice we don't hear out there, and it ties into my next question, and I have one more before we go into wrap up mode. As you're talking about that, Dolores, what I'm thinking about, and I'm just looking at my notes here in your book, the Healing Field, I.

You share with us that healing is not about fixing, but about becoming whole, which you're just talking about now. And so for the [00:47:00] entrepreneur who's listening into our fireside chat, just you and I, Dolores right now, what's the difference and why would this matter for a leader or an entrepreneur, a business owner, founder, or really anybody?

Why is that so important that healing is not about fixing, but about becoming whole?

Dr. Dolores Fazzino: Oh wow. That to me, that's really important because when you're whole and complete.

It's not like you don't need anybody, but it's like you are let me see if I can get the right word for it. When you're whole and complete, it's like you are a hundred percent full of your capacity and what you're gonna be doing is giving from the overflow of that.

Okay, so when you're whole and complete, you give from the overflow of what you have. So you're not going to be depleting yourself because I think many people have a tendency to be givers and they give, and then they deplete themselves and there's nothing left for them to give. But yet, that's a whole different pattern that needs to be looked at too within a person.

But it's about being [00:48:00] complete and whole within yourself. So you are going to be attracting. More things that are energetically aligned with being complete and whole. Okay, so case in point is just like when, people talk a lot about relationships. Oh, I want a relationship and stuff like that. It's just go, they complete me.

You don't show up in a relationship, half complete. You show up complete because you wanna attract somebody who's. Mirroring you who's complete as well, right? So it's just like you walk side by side, in partnership, as complete beings instead of, people who are trying to fill a void within themselves, that the void is never gonna get filled because there's a hole in the bucket, right? So, yeah. So my point is that when you become complete and whole, and this is by feeling what's been happening. 'cause we've all had stuff in our lives. Okay? And I believe as you wake up and become more aware, this is where you step into your power and [00:49:00] know that you have choices. And you could do some, do it differently

Instead of going into react mode and doing it in automatic.

Jeffrey Feldberg: So counterintuitive. It's intuitive, but it's counterintuitive with the social programming that we have and what we're hearing out there and what we're quote unquote supposed to be doing. But you're absolutely right. You're taking us back to how it's supposed to be. And back to basics. And let me ask you this before we go into wrap up mode.

I know there are so many questions that I haven't asked, but is there one question that I haven't asked that really resonates with you that you'd like to get out there to the Deep Health Nation?

Dr. Dolores Fazzino: We are in very interesting times right now, and that we have the ability to step into our power and we have to take our power back within ourselves. It all starts with us first. So do what you can to be kind to yourself. Have compassion for yourself. You are doing the best you can. And just continue to learn and grow and be curious like a child.

Jeffrey Feldberg: That's such terrific [00:50:00] advice and we may revisit that with our, our wrap up question here, but I really like what you're sharing out there in Deep Nation. My goodness, so much that's there. What a well of wisdom and knowledge that you're sharing with us, Dolores. And so with that said, as we go into wrap up mode, it is a tradition here on the Deep Podcast.

It's really a privilege. It's an honor for me to ask the same question to every guest. So let me set this question up for you. It's a really fun one, Dolores. When you think of the movie Back to the Future, you have that magical dolorean car that will take you to any point in time. So imagine now is tomorrow morning.

This is the fun part. You look outside your window. Not only do you see there's a Loring car there, it's curbside. The door is open. It's waiting for you to hop on in what you do. You're now gonna go to any point in your past, Dolores, as a young child, a teenager, whatever point in time it would be. What would you tell your younger self in terms of life wisdom or life, lessons or, Hey, Dolores, do this, but don't do that.

What would that sound like?

Dr. Dolores Fazzino: Oh my God. It would be Trust your instincts.[00:51:00]

Jeffrey Feldberg: Love that. Love that.

Yeah. Such, such a good one that we all need to do more of. And with that said, Dolores, before we officially wrap this up, if a listener, they have a question, they wanna speak with you, perhaps they want some of your coaching or some of your insights to help them help the team, where would be the best place online for someone to reach you?

Dr. Dolores Fazzino: They could go to my website dr dolores bino.com or email me dolores@drdoloresbino.com.

Jeffrey Feldberg: Terrific Deep Wealth Nation. It's all there in the show notes. It doesn't get any easier. It's a point and click. Dolores, congratulations. It's official. This is a wrap and as we love to say here at Deep Wealth, may you continue to thrive and prosper while you remain healthy and safe. Thank you so much.

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