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Entrepreneur And Success Coach Brian Brault Reveals How To Transform Success into Significance (#407)

Entrepreneur And Success Coach Brian Brault Reveals How To Transform Success into Significance (#407)

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Join Jeffrey Feldberg on this episode of the Deep Wealth Podcast as he interviews Brian Price. They discuss the transformative impacts of the Deep Wealth Mastery Program and explore how to achieve both business success and personal fulfillment. Brian shares insights on the importance of strategy, innovation, and maintaining balance across business, family, and health. 

02:39 Brian's Journey to Success

04:01 Common Entrepreneurial Pitfalls

04:31 The Importance of Innovation

12:29 Creating a Culture of Accountability

15:17 Balancing Business and Personal Life

23:24 The Role of Health and Relationships

32:55 Balancing Family and Business Success

33:29 The Misinterpretation of Machiavelli

40:10 Strategies for Leading Entrepreneurs

48:27 Living a Life of Significance

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406 Brian Brault

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Deep Wealth Nation, welcome to another episode of the Deep Wealth Podcast. And today we have not just any entrepreneur, I would say an entrepreneur of entrepreneurs, because as you heard in the official introduction, our guest works with incredibly successful business owners, founders, entrepreneurs, to not only take where their business is today and help scale it, But if I can use that F word to get fulfillment, to have fun, to enjoy the journey along the way, we'll be talking about that and a whole lot more, but Brian, welcome to the Deep Wealth Podcast.

An absolute pleasure to have you with us. And Brian, I'm curious, there's always a story behind the story. So what's your story? What brought you from where you were? To where you are today. 

[00:02:45] Brian Brault: When I think about what got me from where I was to where I am now, just really working hard having a vision, having a passion and you know what, Jeffrey, it's never really been about. What I was doing, the [00:03:00] business that we provided as much as building teams, taking care of customers, taking care of our people and it's really learning how to be an impactful leader along the way. When I say failures it's losing good people because we didn't handle things the right way, losing a customer because we didn't handle them the way we should have we Making decisions that were didn't take everything into account.

Meaning we always erred on the side of taking care of people and taking care of customers. And sometimes really I didn't look at the financial side of things as well. And so over the years I just learned. And every time I learned, went to school and got my degree in business, but really where I learned how to run a business was.

Being out there and doing it, rolling up your sleeves taking care of people, taking care of customers, figuring things out in a way that really no one has figured it out before, and just every day waking up being excited about building business and building teams. 

[00:04:01] Jeffrey Feldberg: From the perspective of your own business, but also the perspective now you've worked with countless entrepreneurs, we typically are the glass is half full and sometimes we miss very glaring things in front view, front vision that can actually hurt us.

What are we typically getting wrong, Brian, that you're seeing time and time again? That if we're just aware of it heading into a situation It would really make a difference for the better. Any patterns that you're [00:04:30] seeing, any trends?

[00:04:31] Brian Brault: Well, I think companies constantly need to be reinventing themselves. I think they need to be challenging themselves. The world is changing so fast. I can remember having a conversation with my dad at one point who, Gosh, in 2019, he won an Emmy Award for work that he had done in the Kodak Research Labs in the mid 70s, and he had patents that were really all under the guise of Kodak, Eastman Kodak Company, which is where he worked, but I can remember him telling me at one point, quite some time ago that companies often aren't getting, taking the time to get patents anymore, because by the time you actually secure the patent, the technology is really null and void and new, better technology has evolved, and so when you take that into account, and you look at What is happening in the business world, whether it is, the evolution of technology and computers and digital marketing platforms and social media, and then now, AI, it's just, companies constantly need to be challenging themselves.

So many companies today, Jeffrey, don't think that AI is going to affect them. And I would say it will affect. Pretty much everybody. And as a result, one of the companies that I coach that is probably the most traditional, conservative type of business is actually embracing AI better [00:06:00] than any of my other coaching clients that I work with or companies that I'm aware of, and they're getting really creative.

They've got some young people on their team, very open minded people. And so just constantly reinventing yourself and feeling an obligation to your customers potential customers your team to be cutting edge and just thinking strategically and innovatively, I think is a really important step.

[00:06:25] Jeffrey Feldberg: So you're talking about AI, let's zoom out for just a moment, because yes, AI is everywhere, it's ever facing, it's out there, it's not going anywhere, and I agree, putting our head in the sand, saying AI isn't going to affect us, it's like saying I'm riding the horse and buggy, but you know what, this new thing called the automobile isn't going to make a difference.

And got you there. If you take a step back, though, what's interesting in, and if I can give a shameless plug to our 90 day Deep Wealth Mastery program, it's actually step one big picture. And to your point, the very thing that we're talking about is, okay, what are some inflection points that are very small right now, things that could potentially put you out of business if left unchecked?

Small trends, different technologies, new innovations. And I find as entrepreneurs, we are incredibly smart and as I said before, we can be incredibly stupid in the sense that, just human nature, we become successful and we get caught up in that success. Or in other words, we become complacent. That's being polite for otherwise saying lazy.

And we're not looking at what are the inflection points. And the classic case, and we [00:07:30] also talked about this in Deep Wealth Mastery, is Blockbuster. Blockbuster, the 800 pound gorilla, over time became complacent, they became lazy, they became irritable to their client base, and they let an upstart come in, take over the market, and eventually put them out of business.

So when you're working with entrepreneurs, what are some of the tactics or strategies, Brian, that you're helping them adopt to pick up those inflection points that would otherwise be off the radar or missed?

[00:07:56] Brian Brault: Well, there's a very good friend of mine who would be amazing for your podcast a guy by the name of Barrett Ercik. Barrett owns a company that's now called Hoganics, which is it's an organic fertilizer and it's, he's been in the fertilizing business his whole adult career and has had three businesses in that realm.

I bring him into some of our executive education programs, the Entrepreneurial Masters Program that I facilitate, and he guides entrepreneurs through a process called Discovering Your X Factor. And Jeffrey, what he does is he helps people to understand that every industry has bottlenecks.

And bottlenecks in your industry are not things that are just unique to your business. It's the same kind of challenges or frustrations that you and your two to three biggest competitors share. And he walks people through an iterative process that That basically helps you to understand what these bottlenecks are and brainstorm these issues in a way that [00:09:00] help you to understand that if you could just crack the code on one of those ways to address that bottleneck, you give yourself a seven to ten times advantage over your competitors.

Competitors. And it's just a different way of thinking. And so it's there's a one to two day workshop that people can go through and I will use his material and walk, teams through that, but then the suggestion is, and the best practice is to spend 10 percent of your meeting time as a leadership team focusing on, And Innovation.

So that it's constantly in front of you. So your weekly meetings, if you have a 90 minute weekly meeting, nine to 10 minutes of that meeting should be based on strategy and innovation every week. If you have your quarterly off sites and it's a two day off site, you should be spending one and a half to two hours of your off site just on innovation.

So you're constantly thinking about, so kind of what I said earlier, reinventing yourself. What can we be doing differently that our competition either isn't doing or isn't thinking, and head blockbuster, to your point, if you walk into a meeting at Blockbuster and say, if I could reduce your rental fees by, almost a factor of 90, they would have, the real estate person would have said, there's just no way we've got such negotiating power.

We have the best rental lease rates, in the industry. There's really no way you can save us that kind of [00:10:30] money. Because they were thinking, within their normal model. When you say, could we reduce your labor costs? You say, geez, we're already at one and a half laborers per shift as it is.

We just can't get any lower than that legally because they weren't thinking that way. And so, but, you know, kind of thinking about taking a Coke machine, That's sitting at the end of your hall Blockbuster and saying, well, what if we shifted everything we do in our stores to this Coke machine?

It just, that's what it takes. It takes people who are just being innovative, crazy ideas and then just saying, well, all right, well, let's just take one of these crazy ideas and let's pretend it's going to work and bring it to life and just see what happens with it.

[00:11:11] Jeffrey Feldberg: My goodness, Brian, with where you're going with this, forget an episode, I see an entire series here because there's a number of points that you made, and they're all spot on in terms of what's there. But one of the things that's coming out of what you're sharing, let's go to culture. And for us, step two, X Factors, an X Factor, one of the foundational ones is culture, because with what you're sharing with Blockbuster, and I know, hindsight's always 20 20, it's very easy to be the backseat quarterback, I get that.

We can all agree, and I'm sure Blockbuster, back in the day, may have agreed, that the culture had just gone off base, it was all about profits first, customers second, let's do what's best for us, and if it gets the customers upset, well, that's their problem, we've got the winning formula, nobody can touch us.

And so, what you're sharing with innovation, [00:12:00] often times, is that, Innovation gets put off to the side. If it ain't broke, don't fix it. Why do we want to do that? It could shut us down in this area. We could lose our business, lose our customers. And now I'm hearing the sales team saying, hey, you're going to cut my commissions off.

You want to try this new thing and I'm going to lose the customers over here because you want to shift over there. Not doing it. So, on paper, it sounds, quote unquote, easy. In reality, looking to implement it can be a very different experience. So, speaking of experience, what works in terms of what you've been able to do with your clients over the years, decades, actually, of, Having a culture that adopts innovation, that's ready to try, as we like to call them here at Deep Wealth, experiments, not bet the farm, but experiments.

And if it doesn't work, we can always stop at any time, but let's dabble a little bit. Let's try and see where things are going. How do we get that within our company, within our culture, if it's not already there?

[00:12:58] Brian Brault: Sure. Yeah. Well, yeah, I think my belief is that leaders of any organization, whether that's a business or a not for profit or a family, really, the leader needs to make sure that the people they're leading can answer three questions, and that is, where are we going? What do we need to do to get there?

And what is my role? Where are we going is that very clearly articulated vision of what success looks like three, five years from now. And when I say clearly articulated, it's very detailed. I just [00:13:30] did this for a very large company over the weekend and this morning, and I sent them I took all their feedback and information, and I created a story out of it that clearly articulates their vision.

But what it does is it gets everyone in the organization aligned behind what success looks like. And it's so detailed that it's literally like looking at a picture, and you can see or a movie of what the company's going to look like in three years. And then from there, the greater team comes together and says, okay, if that's where we're going to be, What do we need to do to get there?

And then the broader team comes together and figures that out. And when you have input from everyone, and the people on your team feel like they are heard, they are valued, and they are able to contribute to the strategy. That is needed to execute to the vision, then you get buy in, you get commitment, you get buy in, and then you're able to create a culture of accountability, which is that last part.

And that is, what is my role? So where are we going? What do we need to do to get there? And what is my role? So everyone in the organization from the founder or the CEO to the person that was just hired on the front line yesterday understands exactly what their role is. We're doing a lot of things in executing on that strategy to reach that vision.

And once you do that and the people understand what they've raised their hand to commit to, it makes it much easier to create that culture of accountability. And so, having alignment around where you're going. [00:15:00] And what it's going to take to get there and what your role is you know, to me, that's a very fundamental recipe for success.

[00:15:07] Jeffrey Feldberg: Interesting. And speaking of success, and I know I've taken us down this rabbit hole, we're going in very different directions. We started with AI, we ended up at inflection points, and now we're talking culture. But let me flip the question now, because Brian, again, what you're doing with your company is incredible, of how it's not just business, and you and I, we've had a number of offline conversations, and each time I speak with you, I walk away even more impressed.

You really get it. You get, if I can use a fancy word, the gestalt of things, because it's not just about reaching this milestone. Are you fulfilled along the way? Dare I use the word happy? Are you feeling both happiness and fulfillment along the way? What's your overall life like? What's your rhythm like?

What's going on the personal side? Because you're really one of the few in my circles, people I speak with, that recognize it can't just be about the business. If the personal side is broken, if it's not working, it's going to spill over. On to the business side and we're a complete package. So when you have your clients in the right place, they're creating market disruptions, they're checking off the boxes on reaching those goals.

Again, it's the 80 20 principle, the 80 20 law. Is it 20 percent of the same actions that are creating 80 percent of the results for these companies that are winning? And if it is. What are some of those 20 percent that are really moving the [00:16:30] dial?

[00:16:30] Brian Brault: I think these coaching platforms that exist in the world have gotten somewhat mainstream, at least in the entrepreneurial world. I think. The people who are the most successful are those that are able to create balance in their life. What I spend I built two very traditional businesses and exited those and I spend my life now working with.

people to help develop leaders in all dimensions of their lives. So in business, in their relationships, and also in their involvement in the community. And what I find is that people who take the time to invest in their family, in their business, in the community, and in themselves is really the right balance to start to create.

A sense of purpose, maybe a sense of happiness. And so what I do when I work with leadership teams, what I really find the most value in is when they allow me to step in and say, great, we've got your company on track. You know where you're going. You know what you need to do to get there. Everyone understands their role.

Let's start to look at you as an individual and how you show up in your world. And so we start to focus on what are the three or four priorities in your family life? do you want your family life to be? Three, five years from now, and what are you willing to do to get there? And then, in addition to that, we and so we approach family, business, your involvement [00:18:00] in the community, and yourself all very much the same way.

Where are we going? What do I need to do to get there? And what is required of me to do that? What is my role in executing on that? And when you're able to sit and identify really two or three, four at the most priorities in each of those areas and start to create a strategic plan for your life in its entirety, it's transformational for people.

[00:18:26] Jeffrey Feldberg: Wow. So as you're talking about that, again, you're making it sound so effortless and I know, and that it's not like we just wake up one day as nice as it would be, it's not like we wake up one day and boom, It just happens. Everything falls into place. There's thought, there's planning, there's deliberate actions of what to do, but also what not to do.

So walk us through some of your, if you will, your secret sauce of what you're doing. So I'm showing up today. Okay, Brian, here we are. The good, the bad, the not so good. Work with us. Help get me as the owner of this company to a better place. What should I expect in terms of timing? How long is this going to take?

What am I going to be doing? And I know every company's different and the journey is going to be different depending on where I am and where things are at. But generally speaking, what does that look like when I start with your leadership mastery?

[00:19:15] Brian Brault: So in the first 90 days, there will be a sense of focus and structure that not only the visionary leader, but the team, the leadership team will feel like they are aligned around and they feel like maybe for the first time ever, they're all rowing in the same direction.[00:19:30]

And then from there, what we'll find is a consistent pattern of a culture of accountability where people where it's really more peer pressure that there's a, the culture of accountability comes from peer pressure. My approach is this. If you and I are on a team, Jeffrey you're going to commit to what you need to do to create success in your area of responsibility.

You will then define where you need to be 90 days from now in order to be on track to reach your annual goals or your three year goals. And then you'll create sub accountabilities or milestones. So what are you going to do next week or two weeks or a month from now on track to meet your quarterly goals and your annual goals?

Those are all yours. You decide what those are, and then you commit to the timeframes. And when we come into our weekly accountability meeting, those are your goals. They weren't imposed on you. You set those goals, you made those commitments, you made those agreements that you would do those things.

When you come into a meeting, every single person that comes in knows that if they didn't achieve something that they said they would, they're going to get asked the same four questions. And that is, what happened? So I ask you, Jeffrey, you committed to get this done, is that done?

You would say, no, it's not. The question is? What happened? And we wait. We wait for an answer. It could take five seconds. It could take five minutes. But we wait for an answer so that you can tell the team what [00:21:00] happened that made you not achieve that goal. The second question is, What is a future date that you can absolutely commit to achieve that goal?

The third question is there any other collateral impact of you not doing what you said you were going to do on your future goals, other things that you're working on, or things that other people are working on? And then the last question is all about team. What can this team do, Jeffrey, to help you achieve this goal?

It's the same four questions. No one feels singled out. If you come to a meeting and you haven't hit your goal or haven't done what you said you were going to do, those are the questions you're going to get. Very rarely does someone walk into a meeting a second time having not done what they said they were going to do.

But it's not someone cracking the whip. It's self imposed. If you've got a good team based on trust, you have a team that has good, healthy input and conflict. Then, it's a lot easier to commit to what you're working towards. So there's that. So what happens is first 90 days, you feel like you've got, you're very focused.

You're very aligned. And then within a year, you start to see consistent results time and time again. And for maybe for the first time, a team starts to believe, hey, yes, we've got some aggressive goals. But I actually think we can accomplish these because we've got a pattern of behavior as a leadership team of excellence and delivering on results.

So, there's a big component of that,

[00:22:26] Jeffrey Feldberg: as you're going through that, you're covering a number of different [00:22:30] areas, but what's behind the scenes, which in my books has you very unique, Brian, it's not just about the business. And yes, you're talking about the business, the strategy, you have your purpose filled life program.

You have that as well. You're also doing two other things. Because it's really the whole package. One of the things is you're talking about overall health, which is near and dear here to us at Deep Wealth because health is our first wealth. I know you have a whole life and wellness program, then at the same time, you're also big on couples retreats.

And what's interesting about that, in my experience as an entrepreneur, and I've made this mistake myself, I've just been so focused on the business, getting to the goal. At my own expense, I've often left out my significant other, my family. So they don't know why I'm going through what I'm going through, what's ahead, all those other things that are going on there.

Can you talk to us about both the health aspect and I'll call it bigger picture wise, the family slash significant other aspect of why that's so central to what you're doing and why that's important?

[00:23:36] Brian Brault: You mentioned about being a whole series versus a single episode. That is one that we could probably spend years on. It's really interesting. So let me touch on really quickly the health and wellness side. And that is we as leaders, we as entrepreneurs So often we're the driving force behind our companies and so investing in ourselves is such an important part.

So, you know when I [00:24:00] talked earlier about family, business, community, and self, they're all important and in when we invest in ourselves whether it is mental health, physical health, wellness, learning, growing, Often we feel guilty when we go off and invest in ourselves or go out and go to a spa treatment or a two or three day retreat or a learning program where we're learning and we're pulling ourselves away from our business and our family, but the reality is in every relationship we have in life, whether it's a Family Relationship, a Marital Relationship, or a Business Relationship, or Friendship.

first show up as an individual, and so, when we show up as an individual, when, need to be the best version of ourselves when we do that, and that takes investing. We need to invest in ourselves. So, eating healthy, staying fit keep learning and growing, constantly improving.

Striving to be better, to learn more, to be more self aware, to be more at peace with where we are in our life. We then come back and we show up better in our business, in our family, in our romantic relationships, and in our friendships. Moving on to the relationship side is You know, my wife is a certified Gottman relationship leader, and so she often is designing a lot of the curriculum that we will guide couples through on our couples retreats that we do.

And our couples retreats, are anywhere from a three day weekend [00:25:30] to week long one at a dude ranch, or, we had one in Tuscany a couple months ago, we're doing one in Greece and Tuscany this coming year. They're very immersive experiences. You have a ton of fun, but you also kind of work as a couple on important parts of your relationship.

My wife started to teach me these concepts of what the Gottman's teach about building an important relationship and how to have a, really successful marriage or relationship. And there came a point. Where she said, every relationship actually needs to have conflict in order to be the best it can be.

And she said, safely navigating conflict leads to intimacy. And I said, I, you lost me there. I don't know that I buy that. She said, well, let's talk about it for a minute. She said, I don't necessarily mean sexual intimacy, but I mean intimacy. And she said, when you and I are having an argument, Disagreement.

What is it that you want from me? And we had a lengthy conversation. Finally, I kind of landed on, well, I want you to understand me. I don't feel like you're understanding what I'm trying to say or you, I don't feel like you understand me. And she said, okay, and what do you think it is that I want? And it was a much shorter conversation.

I said, well, you probably want me to understand you and she said exactly. So if we can figure out how to safely navigate conflict on the other side of that is you have a better understanding of me and I have a better understanding of you [00:27:00] and one of the definitions of intimacy is into me you see. And she said, so if we better understand each other, our relationship is taking a significant step forward.

And she said, so really strong relationships actually need conflict. And she says, she goes, one of the red flags that I see is when a couple says. We don't argue. We never argue. She said, because you actually really need that and what it told me, Jeffrey, was this.

I realized in that moment that a marriage or a, romantic relationship is a team. It's a team of two. And when I look at what I've done with my own companies, but now I do with other companies is it's the same things of building a high performing team, and high performing teams are really based in trust and then from there, healthy conflict.

Once you have trust in your leadership team, and you all feel like you're aligned and you're supporting each other, all going in the same direction. That allows you to really nurture and foster healthy conflict. And healthy conflict is really needed in order be the best team that you can be. And what it does, healthy conflict does, is it makes everyone feel like they've contributed to the team.

The decisions that are being made, it doesn't mean that they're made by democracy. It doesn't mean that you lead with consensus. It just means you lead with collaboration and part of collaboration is really good, healthy conflict. [00:28:30] And and when you foster an environment of healthy conflict, where everyone feels like they've got a voice and their peace has been heard. Once you come to a decision, it's so much easier for people to then commit to that decision going forward. And then from there you have accountability and then you get results. But it's same thing in a marriage. It's having that fundamental trust, having that commitment to each other and being able to safely navigate conflict then allows you to have, an opportunity to communicate and be heard and be sensitive to each other. So anyways, I kind of went off, but that's where it's really fascinating because when my wife and I will deliver these couples retreats, she kind of delivers the research and the science behind things. And I always kind of joke and say, okay, I'm going to, translate this into entrepreneurship now or leadership because they're so aligned.

[00:29:18] Jeffrey Feldberg: Yeah, wow, there's a lot going on there. But let me ask you this, Brian, what you're saying, intuitively, it makes a lot of sense. And I would imagine that as a leader, as an entrepreneur, when I get it right on the personal front, with the family, with the significant other, that we're, in your words, intimate, but in a different way with one another.

That those skills are also transferable to my team, that my team, they want to be heard. They want to be recognized. They want to see that and hear that from me as the big chief, as the visionary, as one of the founders of the company, that it's really creating a cascading win all the way around.

Thoughts about that? Oh,

[00:29:57] Brian Brault: no, absolutely. so when I say I joke, [00:30:00] I'm going to translate this into entrepreneurship or business leader speak is when people can understand that the way you invest in relationships is really the same, whether it's in your personal life or in your business life.

It's because human beings are human beings. 

They show up and they work in our businesses, but they leave our businesses and they go home and they have and you don't necessarily treat one set of relationships fundamentally different than another.

Now, I'm not saying you have to have your business like your family but what I'm saying is the studies that are done about what makes people feel satisfied in their work is usually compensation is on a good day number four, usually number five or even six in terms of how it ranks.

And the top, one or two or three for sure is, Feeling valued, feeling like you contribute, that what you do matters to the organization. And, relationships are the same way, your, for my wife her love language is quality time. And so for me, being centered and focused on her is a really important way that she feels loved.

And so, for me, Being present with her, meaning my phone is not a distraction. I'm not looking at what's going on around the room. I'm not thinking about all the other hundred things going on in my life. But for that moment in time, she's the center of my universe is the way she feels loved. And it's the way I can tell her I love her.

And what, but that [00:31:30] translates to anybody. Any human being needs to feel valued, and when you are present with someone else, you're telling them they matter. And when you're the leader of a company or the leader of a team, the people that you're leading, crave that from you on some level. need to feel valued and they need to feel heard.

And so investing in your people is, I think, essential. In being a strong leader, if you look back one of my favorite books is called Discover Your True North by Bill George, who was the CEO of Medtronics. Now, he teaches leadership at Harvard. Wonderful guy and, in his book, Discover Your True North, in the first chapter or so, he talks about the era of Jack Welch and GE, where You know, the smartest person in the room evolved into being leaders.

He said that era has kind of shifted. It's now people with higher emotional intelligence, the people who genuinely care about the people they're leading and are good at building teams. Those are the people that are evolving into leadership today. And so it's really, if you think about it to kind of.

Bring your question full circle. Those are the same things that you need to really invest in your children or your nieces and nephews or your brothers or sisters or parents, and certainly your romantic relationships that you are present, you are sensitive, you genuinely care, and you're doing what it takes to invest in that team.

And And so, yeah, if you can figure that out on the home front [00:33:00] and you're able to take those skills into your business, I think back to your question earlier on, I think you'll find more success. I think you'll find that you are happier in all aspects of your life and that you're not necessarily needing to make a trade off between family success and business success because, there's a quote that says no failure in the home can justify success in business.

[00:33:25] Jeffrey Feldberg: Yeah, my goodness, Brian, so much to unpack there. What you said though, quick story, actually, is actually just a few days back, I was driving with my daughter and topic came up, she's in high school in her last year, and the topic came up of Machiavelli. And we're talking about what Machiavelli was saying about fear and loved, and it's easy to really misconstrue it.

But he was saying, if you can, you want to be both feared and loved. One without the other is not as good as both. But he went on to say that, well, if you can't be loved, it's better to be feared. If you can only have one, pick fearing. And my sense is, Brian, you can tell me, Jeffrey, on base or off base, that's really been misinterpreted.

And look, in the workplace, as someone's boss, can I get them to fear me? Sure. They're fearful of losing their job. As a parent, can I have a child fear me? Okay, sure, I'm the parent and there could be some consequences. But if we look at the overall bigger picture, and believe me, there is a method to this madness, I'll tie this all together in just a moment here.

When I've mastered the [00:34:30] ability of what you're talking about, of having people genuinely feel heard. respected and trusted. And when I say the word love, that they love me, not in a romantic sense in the workplace, but they love me in terms of, they revere me as a leader. They have a lot of respect. Who are you?

Are we going to get more from, in the really challenging situations, someone who hates someone as a leader or someone who loves someone as a leader, hey, I can't let so and so down, I'm going to go to the moon and back, they really put their trust in me, I don't want to let them down, I'm going to find a way to make this happen, versus that blankety blank and you're feeling what the blankety blank is, let it go where it's going to go, I don't So be it.

They deserve it. And it's so often, I feel, and again, you can see Jeffrey on base, off base, missed in the workplace, because it's very easy to rely on the fear, and Brian, by the way, I'm not perfect. I've failed very much so in this area. I've leaned in the past too much on fear and still learning about that and making course corrections as it goes along.

But looking at it with what you're talking about, this soft skill, this life skill, which is so important, both on the home front and in the business, it can make all the difference from being just good. To being great. Thoughts about that?

[00:35:39] Brian Brault: Yeah, wow. I have always believed or experienced that when I felt the most successful was when I was, involved in a and I, knew the people that worked for me. I cared about them. I knew what was going on in their life. I knew their families. I mean, again, as the bigger you get, [00:36:00] the harder it is to do that. But, people knew that we were a fast growing business and there was a lot going on, but when they felt like I took the time to get to know them as an individual, totally separate from what they were doing for us in our business, they would run through a brick wall.

I mean, it's just something about feeling like you're part of a team, something that feels you're valued, because Jeffrey, we don't know what's going on in the rest of their life and all we can really do is make them feel loved. Cared for, appreciated, valued, and part of a team, that is so important to people.

And it has to be genuine, it can't be, it can't be for the sake of money, it can't be for the sake of just achieving goals or building success, it has to be genuine. And I think what's really important is to understand that, every human being shows up in each moment of every day, a product of all the experiences they've had in their life.

And when you think about your life, Jeffrey, there's been some things that you either have or would love to share on social media, and you'd love to share on a podcast or out with the world. And then there's things you've gone through that, wow, you don't even really want to think of because they were just, they were really hard.

They were really hard. They were scary. They were devastating and sad and just, you don't want to go back there even, but they happened.

They happen, and they make up who you are, and so recognizing every human being is just [00:37:30] showing up in every moment, doing the best they can, given the circumstances they find themselves in, which is the immediate moment, as well as their life 20 years ago, to me, that's just a great way to go through life and just you know, take that with see the humanity in everyone that we work with.

Now, that doesn't mean that we have to, accept bad performance. It just means when we have those difficult conversations that we lean in with curiosity first. In other words, hey, Jeffrey, we have this problem that I need to talk about with you because we need to fix it. You're not delivering on what you committed to do, and we need to figure that out. But Jeffrey, I know that's not like you, and I'm just curious I imagine there's something maybe going on in your life that's making it a little bit difficult for you. And, And I wanna support you in any way I can as we fix this issue.

And maybe that's giving you support, maybe that's getting some of our teammates to step in and, and help out. During a difficult time, whatever it is, but when people feel like you have recognized the humanity that they are going through the struggle that they may be going through and that it's okay To be going through that, then think one, people work harder and are more committed to getting something done, or will accept the help in the moment, and when they have an opportunity to step up and help a coworker or help the team, naturally are more willing to do [00:39:00] that.

Yeah.

[00:39:01] Jeffrey Feldberg: absolutely. And as you're talking about that, when we can be respectful, understanding, supportive, cooperative, it creates gratefulness. And we have to do that without expecting anything in return. It's just part of who we are and what we're doing. But let me ask you this, and it may be somewhat of an unfair question.

I'm going to put you on the spot for just a moment. You're very modest, you've had an incredible career as an entrepreneur, pure wellness rooms you had started, and a number of years later you had a successful exit, you've been very involved with Entrepreneur's Organization, otherwise known as EO if memory serves, you're the global board of directors and all these other fancy titles that go along with that.

When you look back at that, leading in EO, all these other entrepreneurs, it's like herding cats or your own business, pure wellness. Were there any one or two strategies, maybe even three, or maybe just one that really stands out for you as you and I were talking of what can really move the dial in the business?

Is there a particular strategy that jumps out for you that made all the difference for you? And In the Trenches, Pure Wildness, EO, or anything else in between.

[00:40:08] Brian Brault: Yeah, so, great question. many entrepreneurs lead in their businesses with what's called positional authority. When you own a business, you sign the check, so to speak, if anyone signs checks anymore, but you have a title, you own the business. And so you can lead with directives.

You can lead with telling people what to do. [00:40:30] And they choose to do it or not. If they choose not to, maybe they end up finding themselves in another job, but you have positional authority. When you. Lead in the Entrepreneur's Organization. You are leading other successful entrepreneurs, successful leaders.

And so, and these people are volunteering their time. And so, do not have positional authority in the Entrepreneur's Organization, in EO. And so you actually have to learn how to shift to leading with relational authority, which means you're leading through collaboration or you're leading through influence.

And the beautiful thing is, leading with positional authority the way many people lead in their businesses doesn't transfer well into leading in EO. However, if you can learn how to lead leaders, That transfers back to how you lead in your business, and any organization, Jeffrey, has a bottleneck, and usually the width of that bottleneck is determined by the number of people who have the ability to make decisions of substance, and so very often in businesses led with positional authority, that bottleneck is very narrow, because it's the founder, it's the owner, it's the leader or very few leaders.

And so if you can learn how to lead other leaders and see leadership abilities and nurture and mentor and develop them you start to create more leaders. And if you can transfer that back to your business and see leadership abilities in the [00:42:00] people on your team and help develop and nurture them and empower them to start to step up make decisions of substance, that bottleneck widens.

And when that bottleneck widens and you create more leaders in your organization, that's how organizations really scale. And that's really where you create impact and value.

[00:42:18] Jeffrey Feldberg: Interesting, and taking the big picture of what you're sharing. And again, you can share Jeffrey on base or off base. What I'm really hearing you say is, hey, it's easy to lead by title. I'm your boss. I'm the founder. I'm the CEO. I'm the president. Fill in the blank. You're going to do this because I'm telling you to do this versus you're leading not only by example, you have people's respect, you have their admiration, you have, and I use air quotes, their business love that's been earned along the way where they want to help.

And it's not to say that you're a pushover because if things aren't being met, you have transparency, you have accountability, you have those difficult conversations, I'll use another F word, but you're fair. Along the way, how am I doing with that?

[00:43:00] Brian Brault: Yeah, it kind of ties back to your discussion with your daughter about Machiavelli, and that is so you could either choose love or fear, and Machiavelli said if you have to choose, or you have to make a choice, choose fear. I would look at it this way, if I was to agree with that statement, I would look at it this way, the fear of loss.

In other words, if If I am in an environment where I'm constantly told what to do and I'm simply doing what I'm told or doing what other people are [00:43:30] instructing me to do, that's a job and I'm just simply a pawn doing a task, doing what I'm told to do. When I feel like I'm part of a team and I feel like I'm valued and I am respected for my abilities and I'm being nurtured and I'm mentored and I'm growing.

The fear of losing that I think is a powerful motivator because and again, not that I would want someone to fear me, but you know, my spiritual life is important to me. And so, I always struggled with, the notion of being God fearing. And for me believe that to be more a matter of.

The notion of fear there is not the same kind of fear you might have of a predator. But fear of the respect and the power that a being has. And so when I look at where I would feel good about someone Fearing would be that they found so much value in being part of our team and contributing to what we were doing that their fear was based in, I just want to make sure I'm always part of this team.

I don't know if that makes sense.

[00:44:43] Jeffrey Feldberg: It does make sense. And at the risk of going down another rabbit hole, and I'm sure some of the questions that I've been asking, I've lost all the listeners, maybe just one listener, and this next question, I may lose that other listener. So it's just you and I talking now at this point, Brian, you mentioned spirituality, [00:45:00] and I have to share with you that on the podcast, it's really a privilege for me to speak to so many successful entrepreneurs, business founders, thought leaders, whatever they're doing in whatever area they're in.

There's a lot of them though that share with me, Jeffrey, I am the person that I am today because of my spirituality. Some people call it God. Some people call it the universe, whatever you'd like to call it. You were alluding to spirituality for yourself as well. How does that play a role for you as you look over your career and when you're working with clients and a lot of times that can be a no fly zone, but it perhaps is there in the background.

So where are you on that? I'm just curious.

[00:45:40] Brian Brault: Yeah, so, you know, I, personally believe, and I also share this when I'm in helping to form leaders. I use form leaders versus teaching leadership very specifically. And, Because I believe that leadership is already within someone and I'm trying to create and curate an environment for them to find the answers that are already in themselves.

said, one of the things that I talk about is, that for me is important, is having an element of kind of guiding principles in your life, like a North Star of sorts. And that could be and spirituality, that's kind of a broader definition of that is spirituality. And what I say to them is that could be structured religion.

That could [00:46:30] be nature, that could be meditation, that could be yoga, that, that is something unique to each individual. the reason I say is, listen, there's going to be times when we really are in a position where we're making tough decisions or we find ourselves in a challenging situation and having something that you can turn to, to feel grounded and feel like you're making the right decisions that you can feel good about.

Those are important things to have. And so when I talk about spirituality, I have my own definition of that. But you know, I don't impose my beliefs on someone else. But what I do encourage is for people to have something that they look to that gives them that direction that North Star, that's been very essential in how I've been able to get through really, just about, anything, the amazing things as well as the really challenging things.

[00:47:23] Jeffrey Feldberg: Yes, it's really something bigger than yourself, something ever present, if you will, and the peace of mind, the confidence that comes with that, hey, I'm not alone in this. And there is a North Star and it's a good North Star, a terrific moral compass that comes along with that.

It's interesting because I see that when people, if they're open to talking about that, that does tend to come up in the conversations and it's really interesting to hear, I am the leader I am today. Because of that, because of the spirituality, because I allow that in my life, I'm not forcing it or pushing it upon people, but I'm not going to hide it either, because this is a part of who I am, and it's interesting with yourself, Brian, to hear [00:48:00] that as well.

My goodness, Brian, you know what, there are so many questions that I have not asked that I really do want to ask. But as we head into rapid mode, we're not quite there yet. Is there one question I didn't ask that you'd like to put out there, or a particular topic that we haven't yet covered, or even a message or a theme that you want to share with the Deep Wealth Nation?

Perhaps something that you're doing at the Legacy of Significance with all the programs, or what you're seeing, or what's ahead. We'd love your thoughts on that.

[00:48:27] Brian Brault: Oh, boy, I don't know, but came to my mind, what came to my heart as you were asking that is just that there's so many successful people out there and they're successful in a sense that by society's standards about dollar bills or bank account balances and yet. what I have found in my journey, especially over the past five years or so, is that people are looking for something maybe more meaningful, that they don't necessarily want to start just to build another business.

They don't necessarily want to simply get another promotion or make their business bigger. They're okay with doing those things, but they find themselves at a point in their life where. They've achieved some level of financial success or business success, and it is not quite as fulfilling as they thought it would be.

And they're looking for their life to mean something more. they're looking to be able to use their [00:49:30] skills, use their experience to make a bigger impact in the world. And that's going to be different for everyone. I'm all about living a life of significance.

That doesn't mean that you need to cure cancer or get a Nobel Peace Prize or hop on a plane and fly halfway across the world to build a hospital or a school or a children's home, although those are all good things. Very admirable things. It could be just building a life where you are very present in the life of your children and that you raise children who are healthy and contributing to a better world.

I mean, anyone who's ever accomplished anything wonderful in the world is someone's daughter or son. And so, just, there's so many different ways that we can contribute and no one way is better than another. I think it's a matter of being very purposeful about who we want to be and what we want to be with our lives and then just being purposeful about getting there.

I mean, Jeffrey, as long as we are breathing and alive, life is going to happen and either it can happen by accident or we can be purposeful about increasing the likelihood that We live the way we want to live. I had someone tell me once that we as human beings we cannot define our own legacy.

We can choose our behaviors and how we show up in the world. And at some point in the future, the world will define our legacy for us. And so that's really what it's about is just kind of deciding how do I want to be [00:51:00] remembered? And how do I need to show up? And how do I need to live my life in order to?

Maximize the likelihood that people will define my legacy in a way that I feel great about.

[00:51:12] Jeffrey Feldberg: And what's interesting, Brian, as you're sharing that, and in my mind now, I'm reflecting on what you're doing and how you're doing that. I'll put myself under the microscope for just a moment. I don't think my entrepreneurial journey is really different from many others. I never had the time to think about, okay, life after the business.

It didn't even occur to me. I was so busy doing what I was doing. And at the time it felt right. Although looking back, I know it's all wrong. And things like legacy or, hey, Jeffrey, there will come a point in time where you can buy any shiny new object and it'll have you feel better. Happy and smile for maybe a day or two, maybe four, if you're doing really well, but there'll come a point where it's just not going to be enough.

And that fulfillment has to come from within. I never had that training, if you will, or that education or the ability to grow that muscle until I was in the thick of things. And we all know it's already too late at that point. And you're putting yourself in a perfect situation, a perfect storm for some not great results with that.

And what I really admire and respect with what you're doing, Brian, really Elegantly is you're combining business, legacy, health, personal, All together, but you're doing it now. I don't have to imagine 50 years from now, or even 30 years from now. I can begin to do that [00:52:30] today, and it's within reach, and I'm surrounding myself with yourself and others that can help me along the way.

And it's really, I'll use this word deliberately, a lifeline that we don't see a lot out there, but it's there to make entrepreneurs better entrepreneurs, better leaders, better family Standing in the community, whatever it's going to be, it's there for them, through what you're doing, and for that, really, a tremendous amount of respect with what you're doing, and admiration for that, and I'll put this over to you before we go into wrap up mode, if there's anything you want to add to that, or something to, I may have missed in what I didn't say, or did say with that.

[00:53:07] Brian Brault: Yeah, I guess just what feeds my soul, and why I jump out of bed every morning is really having a positive impact in the lives of others, and so, helping to curate experiences where people can have a positive impact in the lives of others. Show up the best version of themselves and be leaders in, in all dimensions of their life is really what I love to do.

And if there's anything, any of our programs that people feel they can connect with, whether it's building their business or finding purpose or investing in their relationship that's what we love to do and the more people that we can help in those areas just is, just makes me happy.

[00:53:47] Jeffrey Feldberg: Well, it's something that is terrific to get out of bed for, and to change people's lives, and to make a difference with that, and it's wonderful, and thank you for paying it forward in your own unique and very [00:54:00] special way that's truly making a difference, and speaking of making a difference, this will be interesting, I'm going to look forward to this, We're in, officially, the wrap up mode here, and it's a tradition on the Deep Wealth Podcast, where I have both the privilege and the honor for every guest, I ask the same question, and it's a really fun question, Brian.

Let me set this up for you. When you think of the movie Back to the Future, you have that magical DeLorean car that can take you to any point in time. So Brian, imagine now it's tomorrow morning, this is the fun part, you look outside your window, Not only is the DeLorean car curbside, the door is open, waiting for you to hop on in what you do, and you're now going to go to any point in your life.

Brian, as a young child, as a teenager, whatever point in time it would be, what are you telling your younger self in terms of life lessons or life wisdom? Or, hey, Brian, do this, but don't do that. What would that sound like?

[00:54:49] Brian Brault: Well, I would probably go back to when I was 25 years old. I had attended a Tony Robbins seminar and we were breaking boards. And, at the time I set this goal. I wanted to be a millionaire and I wanted to have a private jet. And and at 25, that was important to me. And at 60, It's not important at all. And, I, I think I needed some of that energy as a 25 year old and that drive and passion, but what I would have said then I would have said, hey, listen Enjoy those things, but understand that they can come and [00:55:30] go, the relationships in your life going to be the most important things, and just, enjoy what you have, save money live within your means, but where you want to spend your energy and your focus and money is on Developing a great life for you and your family and your friends It's probably what I would have said off the top of my head anyways.

[00:55:53] Jeffrey Feldberg: Wow, really love that. And as you're sharing that, I don't want to oversimplify it, and again, you can share Jeffrey on base or off base, when enjoying the time with your family, your loved one, your friends. It's also enjoying the journey, and to what you're speaking about earlier, having those people as a part of the journey, not excluded.

from the journey. And it's interesting, I've shared this from time to time on the podcast for myself, when I'm with family members, we're at what would be considered, Brian, just a plain old family get together, just another meal, another dinner, another family dinner. I'll deliberately share with people, hey, you know what?

Right here, right now, this is the good old days, five years from now, 10 years from now, 20 years from now. If you were to take a picture, and we were to fast forward, so unlike the question I just asked you of going back in time, we're moving forward in time, and I showed you this picture, chances are, sadly, you'd be saying, oh, wow, I really miss so and so because they're no longer with us, or look at me, look how young I am there, and so much ahead for me.

But oftentimes, the human condition, we don't appreciate that, and we just let it go by as another Let me check the box, another to do [00:57:00] list thing I've done, I've met my obligation, I saw the family for the week, the month, the quarter, whatever it is, as opposed to what you're saying. It's really terrific advice.

I shouldn't do this, but I am going to do this. Ask a quick follow up question, your experience, what's the best way to really make sure that we do enjoy the family, the friends, the loved ones, without letting life get the best of us or the days or the weeks or months get ahead of us? Huh.

[00:57:24] Brian Brault: Yeah, so I have two things. One is, I have a list of a hundred lifetime experiences I want to have in my life, and every year about this time, I look and say, what are the things that I need to prioritize this coming year for whatever reason? Either I'm getting older and these are going to be harder to accomplish, or and so none of them are about accumulating money.

In fact, the only, I mean, they require money to do some of these things, but the only thing that relates to money is giving it away. I track how much money I give away and but also but they're all about experiencing life. And there was a point in time, my dad is going to be 88 in this coming year.

And it was about. Four years ago now that I was sitting and looking at my list and one of my lists was to spend a week one on one with my dad. No one else, not his wife, not my family, just my dad and I one on one, and I looked at it and thought, I don't want to have a regret that I pushed this one off too long, so I just made it a priority, and three months later, we were up in Steamboat Springs for a [00:58:30] week together, just he and I one on one.

So it's a matter of looking and saying, being purposeful because in our businesses, we have our priorities that we focus on and we make sure those things get done. And then, then we open up and start answering emails and phone calls and it starts to fill our day. Well, the same thing in life.

If we don't prioritize. The important relationships in our life things are going to fill up our day. And in our business life, Jeffrey, we have squeaky wheels. We have customers, we have vendors, we have associates that we work with that very often are the squeaky wheels in our life, but it's our children, our marriages, our family that often are the more important relationships.

And I think most people don't realize how important this is. And I think it's important for us to be able to focus on the quiet voices in our life. But they're often quieter. And so really being conscientious of saying, I really need to focus on the quiet voices in my life, not just the squeaky wheels, is important.

And so, the other thing that I do is I have something called Papa Days. My grandchildren call me Papa. And so I have these things called Papa Days, where once a year, I dedicate a day just to them. So I have grandchildren, I have children and their spouses. And so with my children and their spouses and my grandchildren, I take a day And it's just one on one with them.

They decide where we go to breakfast, when we go to breakfast, what we do between breakfast and lunch, where we go to lunch, what we do between lunch and dinner, and then where we go to dinner, and then once dinner's done, the day's done.

But it's a day that is a [01:00:00] hundred percent focused on them, and they decide what we do. So, it is a day where it's just me and that person, and the only time I bring out my phone is to take pictures or videos, and then at the end of the day I make a video. I upload it to YouTube so that it's memorialized and then, It's just a day, and certainly my grandchildren will never let me stop doing that.

I think I get more out of it than they do, but every time I see them, they're thinking about ideas for their next pop a day, and I've never really had a budget until Transcribed My son's middle child, his son last year after the day after his Papa Day, he decided, he said, Papa, he said, next year for my Papa Day, I want to go in a hot air balloon and ride around all day in a limousine.

And I thought, well, well, I may need to impose a budget on these things before they get carried away. But they're just, they're incredible days and they're just, they're memories and investing and they're things that I will remember for the rest of my life, but I know they will as well.

And they'll know that every year they were able to spend a day where it was just me and them and they were the center of my world and that they meant a lot to me. And, I hope that when they're 50 years old, they remember those moments with admiration and love.

[01:01:17] Jeffrey Feldberg: Brian, that is absolute, not gold, but platinum in terms of what you're doing for your legacy. And those are really, I'm going to say character building moments, not so much for you. But it is, in this case, for your [01:01:30] grandchildren and how they're going to raise their children and how they're going to talk about you with these Papa Days.

And the other takeaway I'm hearing from you, we can't leave it to chance. Just like in business, we don't leave things to chance. We can't leave it to chance. So for starters, we can't ignore the most important people in our life. And it's always struck me as so ironic. We will treat a stranger from the street in a polite, kind voice.

However, our loved ones, our significant other. So perhaps at the wrong time is not that nice, kind voice that they're hearing from us. It's something else and it's not good. And then to your point of blocking it out, putting it in the calendar, I'm not just going to somehow imagine it's going to happen. No, this is going to happen, God willing, it's going to happen at this date and this time until further notice.

And you're really blocking out the time to make it happen, which is wonderful life advice. And so Brian, coming out of here, my goodness, there are just so many more questions. We're going to have to have you back and continue the conversation. In the interim, though, for that one listener that might be listening that didn't drop off from all these crazy questions I was asking in these different rabbit holes that we were going down, a listener does have a question.

Someone in Deep Wealth Nation, yes, Brian, come into the company, help us, or help me as a leader get that fulfillment. And really, from my whole business, personal, my legacy, all those other things, put that all together in a cohesive way. Where is the best place online for someone to find you?

[01:02:50] Brian Brault: Well, our website is at legacyofsignificance. com or they can reach me personally at brian, which is B R [01:03:00] I A N, at life bydesign. com, life bydesign. com, and I answer every email I ever get.

[01:03:08] Jeffrey Feldberg: And Deep Wealth Nation, it does not get any better. Go to the show notes. It's a point and click. Brian is sharing his email address. Take him up on that. Reach out. Ask some questions. Have a conversation. I guarantee you, you'll be a whole lot happier and better coming out of that than when you went into that.

Well, Brian, on that note, congratulations. It's official. This is a wrap. And as we love to say here at Deep Wealth, may you continue to thrive and prosper while you remain healthy and safe. Thank you so much.

[01:03:36] Brian Brault: Jeffrey, you're awesome. Thanks for having me. This has been very deep and really I had a lot of fun. 

[01:03:41] Jeffrey Feldberg: So there you have it, Deep Wealth Nation. What did you think? 

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So all that said. Thank you so much for listening. And remember your wealth isn't just about the money in the bank. It's about the depth of your journey and the impact that you're creating. So let's continue this journey together. And from the bottom of my heart, thank you so much for listening to this episode.

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Brian Brault

Founder/Servant Leader/Coach/Grandfather/husband

I was born into a family where leadership meant something deeper than success in any single domain. My father, an Emmy Award-winning scientist at Kodak, moved seamlessly between worlds—pioneering technical innovations in the lab while dedicating himself to community service. At every family dinner, he would end our prayers with "help us to keep mindful of those less fortunate," then bring those words to life—whether inviting underprivileged youth to build soap box derby cars in our garage, taking leadership roles in our church, or, as I witnessed later, giving his own coat to a homeless woman in New York City. Through him, I learned early that true impact comes when we apply ourselves fully across all dimensions of life.
This perspective shaped my own path from the start. At age five, I launched a neighborhood hot dog stand, discovering early the thrill of entrepreneurship. The following year, a neighborhood friend wanted to join in, and together we expanded the concept to include entertainment - creating my first lesson in experience design and relationship building. The entrepreneurial spirit deepened throughout my youth, as even a simple paper route became about more than just delivering papers—it became a first experience in building genuine connections with others and handling service challenges with care. These early lessons in connecting with people while delivering results would become foundational to my leadership approach.
My early vision of creating change led me to student government, where I served three consecutive terms as student body pre… Read More